not so deep

i am having a good hair day. yeah me.
the mormon bachelor pad is having a giveaway-a shabby apple dress. they say they picked the hottest one, which only confirms the fact that what we think we look good in and what men like on us can be polar opposites.
i really wanted to write some stuff that i found out yesterday. stuff about how women can be just as big of assholes as men can. trying to run it through my mind to see if i can keep the story truthful, get the point across, but keep the woman and her family beyond anonymous. its pretty intense stuff that blows my mind.
i dont excuse bad behavior in men, but i definitely find the same type of behavior in women to be far more....i dont know. horrible. does that make me sexist?

good hair day

i used a sample of doves new heat defense therapy shampoo and conditioner. I LOVE IT!! my hair is such a pain, but this shampoo really made me reconsider shaving it all off in an act of desperation. no dry ends after the blow dry and its really shiny and soft. plenty of body too. i never have body in my hair. its really fine so i normally have to do some sort of ritualistic sacrifice just to get the good hair gods to make it look somewhat decent. i should line up a ncmo just so someone besides myself can run their hands through it. its the simple things that really bring us joy. like good hair.