not so deep

i am having a good hair day. yeah me.
the mormon bachelor pad is having a giveaway-a shabby apple dress. they say they picked the hottest one, which only confirms the fact that what we think we look good in and what men like on us can be polar opposites.
i really wanted to write some stuff that i found out yesterday. stuff about how women can be just as big of assholes as men can. trying to run it through my mind to see if i can keep the story truthful, get the point across, but keep the woman and her family beyond anonymous. its pretty intense stuff that blows my mind.
i dont excuse bad behavior in men, but i definitely find the same type of behavior in women to be far more....i dont know. horrible. does that make me sexist?

virgin?

the boys over at the mormon bachelor pad posed the question about whether you could consider yourself a virgin if you participate in oral sex. without a doubt participating in oral sex violates the law of chastity for both men and women, but i think it breaks down differently for girls and boys. if a girl allowed oral sex to be performed on her she is definitely acting in an immoral way, but still a virgin until she has actual intercourse. a boy, on the other hand, whether its traditional sex or oral sex, very similar things are happening to him and i dont think he could be considered a virgin any longer. is that sexist?

seriously?

really? is this what it takes to be sexy today? what is the deal with guys thinking the girl on girl action is so "awesome"? this seriously gets on my nerves. i have yet to meet a woman who gets all hot and bothered when they see guys kiss each other. men certainly wouldnt do it in order to make a girl jealous or turn them on. why do girls/women do it? why is acting like a lesbian so freakin sexy? my gay friends hate the trend-basically its a lie;another form of the big sex fakeout-something that will not continue after you become exclusive and get married. its a ploy. arggggggggghhhhhhhhh! maybe the guys will explain it to me. not that any explanation would make it right, but just clue me in. it seems like the girls/women almost feel peer pressure to act "sexy" in this way. prove that they arent uptight prudes. calvin and jake certainly have a story to tell for the rest of their lives. it didnt seem like it, but i wonder if, on any level, what brittney did made calvin want to get back together with her. did the light switch back on?