seriously?

really? is this what it takes to be sexy today? what is the deal with guys thinking the girl on girl action is so "awesome"? this seriously gets on my nerves. i have yet to meet a woman who gets all hot and bothered when they see guys kiss each other. men certainly wouldnt do it in order to make a girl jealous or turn them on. why do girls/women do it? why is acting like a lesbian so freakin sexy? my gay friends hate the trend-basically its a lie;another form of the big sex fakeout-something that will not continue after you become exclusive and get married. its a ploy. arggggggggghhhhhhhhh! maybe the guys will explain it to me. not that any explanation would make it right, but just clue me in. it seems like the girls/women almost feel peer pressure to act "sexy" in this way. prove that they arent uptight prudes. calvin and jake certainly have a story to tell for the rest of their lives. it didnt seem like it, but i wonder if, on any level, what brittney did made calvin want to get back together with her. did the light switch back on?

phenomenon

watching "phenomenon" with john travolta,kiera sedgewick,and robert duvall. i love that movie. 2 scenes in particular. the first is kind of obvious. the scene where she cuts his hair and shaves him. sexy. the other is with "doc" in the bar and he gives his speech about "buying her chairs". george kept buying lace's hand crafted chairs. he loved her and wanted to show that in a way she would uniquely understand. he found the key and used it. i need someone to buy my chairs. i think we all do. i dont know for sure what my chairs are, but i know the man who figures it out will have my heart forever. i know its a movie, but i really believe we can have aspects of that kind of love in the real world. i am counting on it.