trickery

i tricked mr ex man and i think i have gotten him out of my life for good. part of the reason i was asking about temptation was because mr ex man was trying to tempt me with all kinds of unrighteous, carnal type things. there was a time that this might have been a temptation for me because i was soooooo in looooooooooove with him. i like to think that i would ultimately resist, but it would have been a temptation nonetheless. now there is zero temptation with mr ex man. i mean none. its kind of weird and i know he did not like it, but those are the breaks. oh yeah. the trick. soooooooo. it was kind of accidental on my part, but it worked and that is all that counts. mr ex man has always insisted he could never let me go entirely. i used to think this was so romantic and interpreted to mean that he was so madly in love with me that he would make the necessary changes to make our relationship work. never happened, but he refused to just go away. the trick was he got mad at me and said he would never see me again. i jumped on it and said so sweetly, "mr ex man, we did it! we agreed to never see each other again. yeah for us!" i hung up and when he started calling over the next few days, i just ignored him. ignored the texts. its been quiet for a while now. i think its sticking!!! yeah for us. yeah for me. it feels good to be done. truly. sigh. :)