40, single, and mormon, are you KIDDING me?
Was this the guy I was asking the same question about some months ago?
sigh. yes(head ducked, face red). its been 3-4 months since i have had any contact. i have actively ignored him. its been at least 2 months since the last time he attempted to contact me. examining my reasons for even responding.
Then I think that's a good question to answer: what were you thinking?
welllllll....there are a few facets to my reaction. it was just kind of a knee jerk reaction. if someone texts me, i respond. i think ignoring someone is not only rude, but a quick way to degrade someone. i do not like doing that. i responded without thinking too much about it. it was witty repartee for a short while(i like that),but turned to the same ole, same ole(dont like that). by that time, i just want it to end and want him to understand it is over. it truly is like giving a child negative attention. a kid will take any kind of attention you give him. i need to get over my own issues and just ignore him regardless. no matter how long its been or how harmless it seems.