new title sucks!!!

i logged in today and saw my new title and it instantly irritated me. it sounds pious. maybe a little self righteous. i am neither of those things,but the thing that irritates me the most is that by just reading it makes me feel like i am being judged. there is an under current amongst the sa mormon world that tells us if you are keeping the law of chastity then you must be wholly unattractive. fat. ugly.crazy. so crazy that no man would want you anyway. amongst a people who are supposed to be following this important doctrine. i am not judging anyone who chooses to have sex outside of marriage, just wonder why its so rare with our people.