or still. however you want to look at it. mr ex man has arrived back on the scene and one of the new guys from the dating site called me last night. we had a delightful two hour conversation. he texted me today to say how much fun he had and that he would like to do it again. he is nice and so far i am impressed by him. i am not easily impressed, but i have learned the hard was that even if i am impressed, i need to take it with a grain of salt. it is meaningless until some real action is put behind it.
i remember watching the last lecture by randy pausch and one of the things he wanted to tell his daughter about boys/men was:
pay no attention to what he says, pay attention to what he does.
simple, but so true. i need to pay more attention to that. i like words, they mean a lot to me, but i definitely have experienced all talk and no action from the men in my life. it sucks.