tripp hazard gave some pretty sound advice on one of my recent posts regarding the possibility of joining a lds dating site.
one thing he said has me somewhat flummoxed. funny word, flummoxed. i dont think i have ever used that word, but i think it fits here. when he suggested that i show my quirkiness(am i quirky? i am sure SOMEONE would think so), but hold back a bit. one level less is how i think he put it.
how quirky am i? am i enough to be interesting or am i really so over the top that men run screaming?
the latter really isnt true. i think i fall into a fairly common category where the guys i date really seem to like me, a good number have fallen in love with me(or so they said), but when it comes to follow through, they drop the ball.
i think a more likely possibility is that i am not quirky enough. men seem to like the girls who put them through the ringer. make em work for it. i am not really like that. i dont take crap, but i dont make ridiculous demands. wait. maybe i do. if you say you have a temple recommend, i expect you to have one and not some lame story about why you dont. i demand honesty and have 0 tolerance for the lack of it.
maybe a guy will do all you ask, jump through all the hoops if you just have sex. maybe that is my quirk. i wont have sex unless i am married. i dont know how you can hold back a level on that.