thirty. 30. the big 3-OH

the ranting librarian over at the voice of reason was talking about her 30th birthday and of course it made me think of my 30th year. yuck. thats the year i divorced msof and a lot of the drama happened right around my birthday. not all of it was yuck. divorce is certainly yucky, but i freed myself of a bad relationship and managed to get myself to hawaii to celebrate. msof called my lawyer while i was gone and was sooooooo pissed off i was in hawaii. that was the best. he never wanted to go anywhere and as soon as hes out the door, i put my traveling shoes on.