women, in general, complain about how men cant/dont/wont talk, right? i have never really had that problem, but i figured out why.
when rehashing broken relationships and listing the good things about said broken relationship, "good conversation" was always, without exception, on the list.
but,but BUT how can we have such good communication and the break ups be so ugly? BECAUSE I AM THE GOOD CONVERSATIONALIST. its all me.
i thought it was a marker of a good relationship with healthy communication patterns, but it is really just party skills put to use for an extended period of time.
no longer can "good conversation" be any sort of test, because its not rare. it doesnt mean anything.